I feel like this has been said, but that it continually needs to be said. People always ask me what financial domination is and what it’s about. I am going to lay out the essence of the fetish very simply. It’s really quite straightforward. It is about money, but money is the means to an end.
The first thing you must understand is that service implies usefulness. Spoiling me is the only way you can be useful to me if you are not coming to me in person to rub my feet and scrub my floors.* Thus, financial domination is actually an acceptable form of service.
Financial domination is a natural extension of Goddess worship. When you worship and love your Domina as the Goddess that she is, you naturally desire to serve her. You desire to enrich her life, reduce her need to struggle or toil, and provide for her to the best of your ability. Thus, financial domination acts upon the natural submissive desire to give his Domina the best that he can.
Financial domination is a very powerful exchange requiring trust and sacrifice. When a man subjugates his frivolity for his Mistress’s pleasure, his life is stripped down to its minimalist core.** All that remains is the worship of his Goddess and her happiness. His willingness to suffer proves his devotion to and worship of her. Thus, financial domination requires a noteworthy sacrifice from the submissive.
When a man surrenders what he works to earn, his 9-5 hours are spent in service to his dominant, even when she is not present. He surrenders himself, his effort, his spoils, and that which is dear to him. Thus, financial domination creates a sense of total ownership even for long-distance slaves.
So, the essence of financial domination boils down to the following points:
- Financial domination is in true service to the Domina.
- Financial domination is a natural extension of worship.
- Financial domination requires sacrifice from the submissive, thus proving his devotion.
- Financial domination creates genuine ownership.
* Ask yourself this: is what you have to offer as useful to me as bringing me dinner? Is it as useful as keeping my home sparkling? No? Then it probably isn’t useful enough for me to care. Most requests for online “service” actually involve you purchasing some kind of service from me. I don’t do that. I don’t care if you want to make a fool of yourself because it makes your little dicky hard. No one cares about your dick as much as you do. Certainly not me. So, why would it matter to me if you get off? The answer is, it doesn’t.
** Some take this to an extreme, forcing their slaves to live in hovels or, worse, driving them into insurmountable debt. I do not do this. I wish my slaves to be in optimal condition to serve me and such a tactic is not conducive to my aims.
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